Category: Grand Adventure

  • A Chicago Weekend

    It seems strange to me that it has been two weeks since I spent a fabulous weekend with friends in Chicago.  Liana and I flew in on Thursday and spent a couple of lovely days meeting friends,  chatting and knitting by the fire,

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    snoop shopping, window shopping, or just looking at clothes not thinking of buying them but of what inspires us, how they are made, what the designer has put together and why, comparing notes on what intrigued us and why.

     

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    This is the back of a dress by Ralph Rucci.  The dress is a heavy jersey.  The band at the hip is woven.  Note the detailed stitching and the shaping that is incorporated into the design.

     

    Liana was a great shopping companion as she is very detail oriented and observant about cut and technique, noticing subtleties that many others would miss.  We were also both great fans of this detail at Moncler, whose coats are all too warm for Tennessee winters.  

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    My photo is not good.  But if you look carefully you will see the three rows of zipper teeth, graduated in size, with only the center zipper being functional.  A similar treatment was used as a waistband treatment in a coat of the same heavy textured wool boucle.

     

    Some fun was had as well…

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     trying on hats at Neiman Marcus.  

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    As was getting our makeup done, also at Neiman's, before going out to opening night at the Lyric Opera with our friends Patti and Norm to hear Elektra.

     

     

    Norm and I were the only members of our party who had not made our opera outfits, although I had intended to make mine.  I have several evening things I want to make but I seriously miscalculated the demands on my time.  They will still get made.  I'm a firm believer in the old adage "if you make it the occasion will come". 

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    Luckily I had this dress still in my closet left over from a few events in my heavier days in NY.  It was passable, and several inches longer than the last time I wore it.   I needed new shoes to carry it off.  I actually look a lot like my paternal grandmother in this photo.  I tried to channel a little bit of her drama but I don't think I quite pulled it off. The evening was fabulous regardless.

  • Yves Saint Laurent: A highly personal review

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    It has been exactly two weeks since I saw the Yves Saint Laurent Retrospective at the Denver Art Museum and I am still trying to assimilate it all in my mind.  When I walked out of the exhibit, over 2 1/2 hours after walking in, I was completely overwhelmed.  When asked about my five favorite garments my mind went blank.  I couldn't imagine any garments at that point, just details and fabrics, beading, seaming, incredible workmanship. I felt like I had been cramming for an exam, trying to fit a lifetime's worth of inspiration into a short intense period of time.  I wanted to remember everything, and although I did want to remember the garments themselves, those are available as photographs in the book.  It was the details I wanted to absorb, the things that made the garments special, the things you can never quite tell from a photograph: the weight, hand and crispness of the fabric, the details of the workmanship.  All I can say is that this exhibit was completely awe-inspiring to the point of being overwhelming.

     

    I am still working on the remembering.  Luckily I took notes and bought the catalog.  Both are necessary because the catalog, although fabulous, does not necessarily highlight the things I wished to remember, but it is chock full of information.

     

    I did have a few complaints.  The lighting could have been better arranged. I do appreciate the difficulty of preserving fabric, but there were garments that simply were not visible do to the dim-almost-unto-blackness lighting.  The wall devoted "le smoking" suffered the same fate as well, and although many people seeing the show at the same time as I loved it, I found it disappointing.  But perhaps I was looking for more detail, and a bit more discussion of the development of the idea.  I was looking at the exhibit through the eyes of a person who sews and is interested in the details of fashion and clothing, and for the most part, this is not the intended audience for this show.  There were also some issues with fabric terminology, but then again, I quibble, and they did not diminish the overwhelming joy I experienced at seeing this show.

     

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    And the show was very good.  There were over 200 garments in the show and one was able to get very close to a large number of them, close enough to inspect and admire, close enough to see seams and actual stitches.  Close enough to be inspired.

     

    There were many details I wish I could share but I cannot adequate photos to post here: 

    A blouse with lovely trim that looked for all the world like a suede fringe dipping below the jacket until you looked closely and saw that it was loops of silk, hand overcast along the edges.  

    Spectacular and meticulous matching of plaids on stripes, with every single seam looking perfectly planned and executed while still being fitted and flattering to a female form.  

    A simple tunic with a yoke and cut-on sleeves, cut just so that the grainline ran down the sleeve and created a slight bias at the yoke, gently pulling open the neckline slit just enough to show a hint of the collarbone and caress the shoulders.

     

    There were many pants that were soft and feminine, cut with generous pleats and soft gathers over the curves of the hips.  They were not tight and the pants were loose, in lightweight materials that flowed, but they were not wide by today's standards for wide pants.  The pleats almost always faced inwards, and were quite generous, laying flat at the waist, and yet allowing room for movement without accentuating curves.  I think sometimes we forget how flattering fabric can be when allowed to drape and flow. 

     

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    The show reminded me how much of what we as women take for granted in our clothing today, we actually owe to Yves Saint Laurent.  And it reminded me of the perfection of simplicity, quality, and attention to detail.  Many of the clothes were apparently simple but actually only masterfully conceived to appear simple, to flatter, and not necessarily to draw attention to themselves, although some most certainly did.

     

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    The use of unusual materials in simple shapes

     

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    Blending materials traditionally used for day and evening, or using materials out of their traditional context. 

     

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    Even simple and icon dresses, such as this Mondrian dress have much to say.  The dress is pieced, and although it was widely photographed and instantly recognizable, the book states that it was the "least worn".  What I find remarkable is how simple and chic it is, and how well it fits.  I am sure that some of those apparently vertical lines hide shaping and darts, as the dress flatters the figure and the geometry is an illusion.  Today Ralph Rucci is the master of hiding shaping in decorative seaming, granted to a much more subtle effect than this particular dress.  But the Mondrian dress itself still as much to say, much to teach us about art and illusion, fit and flattery, if we are willing to listen.

     

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    These dresses all took my breath away.  Yes some of them are more wearable than others.  All of them are filled with imagination, and beautifully executed.  The piecing of the fabric is done with skill so that it does not destroy the hand of the fabric. But it is the next to the last skirt that haunts my mind.  Yes, we've seen the image before, the leaves inspired by Matisse's cut outs.  Many have copied this idea.  I've even seen knitted sweaters with this pattern, although I think it is a les effective interpretation than in this silk tafetta skirt shown here.  Yves Saint Laurent wrote of the movement of the skirt giving the effect of fluttering leaves moving around the wearer.  I can imagine that, along with the scroop of the silk echoing the rustle of falling leaves as one walks in the woods on an autumn day.  

     

    The idea of rustling, floating leaves still haunts my dreams.  I wonder where my imaginations will lead.

     

     

    evening dresses courtesy of fashionista.com

    tuxedos courtesy of fashionista.com

    three dresses courtesy of fashionista.com

    raffia coat, photo scanned from YSL, the book

    beaded cardigan, chiffon blouse, flannel pants, photo scanned from YSL, the book

    mondrian dress. photo scanned from YSL, the book.

    evening dresses courtesy of fashionista.com

     

  • This is not Knoxville

    Today dawned bright and sunny and I am filled with energy and resolve.

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    This could be because I took off to Denver over the weekend for a well needed break.  Part of me couldn't believe that it had been six weeks since my previous trip, and another part of me was desperately ready to go and de-stress.  That part had been ready for weeks.

     

    The above photo is of the Denver Public Library. I love the shapes and proportions of the roof line.  The photo was taken sitting outside the Denver Art Museum, you can see the overhang of its own interesting roof in the upper left corner, immediately following a nice slow viewing of the Yves Saint Laurent exhibit.

     

    Seeing Yves Saint Laurent with friends who also sew and love clothes and fashion and pay attention to all the details was fun, fascinating, and exhausting.  The weekend was not all work however and I came home more focused, refreshed, and oddly calm, as if a long-neglected corner of my psyche had been fed.

     

    I will be sharing more as soon as I manage to pull my notes together (yes I took copious notes) and cross-reference them with the catalog while everything is fresh in my mind.  

     

  • In the wind

    I am off again today, this time a trip purely for pleasure, a weekend in Chicago. It is a trip that is desperately needed, now that I at least finally appreciate how much I need the decompression period that going away allows. I will probably be the wimpy one that poops out early.

    My grandmother had one of those folksy placques in her house that read "the hurrieder I go, the behinder I get" and that has been pretty much how I have felt lately, although it is more appropos to think the "more I think everything is under control, the more chaotic it becomes". Not that I believe anyone has everything under control anyway, control is just another one of those little lies we tell ourselves to make life a little easier.

    Anyway, although several blog posts have been circulating through my thoughts, the process of actually stringing words together has proven more elusive. This is why I am sitting in the airport, waiting to board, and typing a post. I am not sure that I am enamored of the way post editing on the iPad is shaping up so far, and I seem to have no control over the photos. I may have to find another way. But here goes. I am hoping for the best.

    Hopefully the first photo is of the back of the sweater I started before leaving for New York. It is a fast knit; the fact that I spent 2 weeks on it is no indication of the difficulty of the pattern, more likely the paucity of my knitting time. This particular sweater started with the yarn, Lang’s Sol DegradéOnly after I fell in love with the yarn did I realize that I had purchased a Lang book 182 last summer and that it had an extensive selection of patterns using this yarn. Through no fault of mine, the pattern I chose, #67, happens to be illustrated in the same colorway that captured my heart.

    I believe this will end up being a versatile sweater in my new locale, and the colors will be good for both spring and into the warmer days of fall.

    I have it with me on this trip. I considered starting something more portable, like a delicate shawl, but that just didn’t happen. How much knitting I will actually do is debatable. If my last two trips are any indication of a developing trend. I may well fall asleep the instant the plane leave the gate. Decompression indeed.

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  • What I learned in NY

    The trip to Hyde Park was good in so many ways and although I can't say it was particularly restful, it was reinvigorating.

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    I overscheduled myself from the very beginning, trying to catch up with everyone and do everything in an impossibly short time.  Then, when plans began to go awry while I was in transit, I felt a little worried and stressed just by the logistics of everything, frazzled before I even arrived.   Time spent with friends was far too rushed that first day.

     

    But when I went to to the Hyde Park house I was instantly calmed.  I saw this place with new eyes, eyes that were no longer clouded by the various other stories that had been going on in my life when I left. The house itself was good and in good shape.  I thought I would buy it again, if my life were on a different course.  But even though I still own the property, it is not my house anymore.  And I don't miss it.

     I was happy to see a few flowers, happy to see that a few tulips were still blooming.  And my beloved hellebores were lush with flowers.

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    The fern-leaf peony was about to open.  Perhaps it is still open today for the open house.  I was tempted to dig it up and bring it home to Tennessee.  But I did not. 

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    The pool was opened.  Chemicals were added.  A few things were purchased.  After all of this I left.  I was supposed to meet a friend in NYC.  She got her weekends mixed up.  Always late, but a little later than usual I sent a text only to get "That was this weekend?" in response. Out. Of. Town.  Oh well.  

     

    When I got the message I was in a bar waiting, negroni in hand.  At first I felt at loose ends.  I thought of going back to my hotel and ordering room service. That is what the Mardel of just a few months ago might have done.  During the past few years I have admittedly drawn inward.  Always introverted, I had retreated further into myself to the point that I haven't always been quite sure how to reach back out.  Instead, I decided that I had been given an opportunity.  I sat back and savored my drink slowly, watching the crowd.  There were many groups of people talking.  Some were talking business.  Some were just kicking back and relaxing.  One girl, obviously a friend of the hostess, would be animated when her friend had a few minutes to stop by but otherwise looked down at her drink, forming an island around herelf in the crowd.  On another side of the bar were several single guys, drink in hand, frantically attacking their smartphones, scanning their networks, trying to find a connection.  One managed to link to someone he knew and work his way into a group on the far side of the bar, relief palpable in his every motion.  The others finished their drinks and left.

     

    I could have been one of those people.  Might have been.  But I decided to follow a different path. I went for a walk.  I watched people hurrying home from work.  I watched friends laughing together.  I watched people walking dogs. I slowly breathed in the New York air and looked at the buildings and in the store windows. At one intersection three women were trying to hail a cab.  When a cab pulled over, the women, who were apparently not traveling together, got into a discussion over which one of them should take it. The cabbie gave up and departed.  Only women would do that, even in New York.  It made me smile.

     

    By then I realized I was hungry.  I passed a sushi place that was quite busy but there was a seat at the bar. I am always attracted to busy places when I am alone.  I sat and ate, quietly at first, trusting the chef to give me something good, but allowing myself to begin chatting with my neighbors about the food, sake, and the protocols of using soy and wasabi with one's sushi.  This lead to more random and frivolous discussions.  It all turned out to be a perfect evening, exactly what I needed, and the highpoint of my trip.

     

    I was just another annonymous person in a big city on a Friday night, and I had fun.  I had forgotten how much I like to travel. I had forgotten how much I like to see new places, to observe yes, but with an open mind, and a willingness to interact.  It had been a long time since I had been able to experience that side of travel, the wonder at the new, either alone or with a partner.  My days of having a partner in observation are gone.  New things became frightening and overwhelming to G long before most people were willing to accept changes in his everyday demeanor.  And this changed me as well:  Forced to cope, often without support, I drew inward and essential parts of myself got locked away.  This past weekend in NY it is as if I found a key to some long-locked door, which when opened, was filled with light.

     

    That little spark has remained.  I like the way people here are more open, more likely to greet strangers with a kind word.  I may have shrugged it aside a few weeks ago, but now I find myself discussing recipes with the clerk at the food market, chatting with the postal clerk,  discussing wine with another customer at the local liquor store, or shoes with a deacon at my church. Well, there has not been a complete transformation. I still find safety in annonymity.  It is easy to master easy-going banter when there is no risk involved.  It is the middle territories that are hard, the groups that are neither strangers nor close friends, where the risks seem higher.  Somehow those risks don't seem so insurmountable this week.  And for that I suppose I have to thank New York.

  • 48 Hours

    IMG_7332Thursday morning.  As I am writing this, my bags are packed. Yes I have knitting. But by the time this post is actually published I will be  somewhere in the air between Knoxville and Washington Dulles, the first leg of a whirlwind trip to New York where a few things need to be accomplished.  I will be in New York 2 nights or 48 hours and 13 minutes assuming everything runs according to schedule.  Most of that time will be spent in the Hudson Valley where I have some business to attend to, including opening the pool at the Hyde Park house so that it looks all pretty and inviting to potential buyers.

     

    Packing was pretty straightforward, I dithered over a rolling bag but decided the trip was too short and I didn't need so much room.  Then I dithered over which handbag to take, my Vuitton Alma is the same volume as this bag but measurably lighter.  However that bag feels more dressy to me and this is a decidedly casual trip.

     

    IMG_7331Here is my basic travel wardrobe, including what I am wearing on the plane. Everything revolves around the Lafayette 148 light-colored jeans that are my current favorite, especially when worn with the black and white check shirt and the white and black cap-toe flats, which have probably seen more wear this spring than in the first several years I owned them.   IMG_7330Add to the mix two scoop-neck tees, one navy, one black, a light linen cardigan by Eileen Fisher, navy Supergas and a lightweight cashmere shawl and everything was good to go.  Being overcautious I threw in a pair of lightweight black ponte pants, just in case something goes wrong at the pool opening and I get wet. I can't promise it won't have been removed by the time I actually leave the house.  In my life carry-weight is everything, and knitting is paramount. Well, and jewelry of course, but the jewelry will be stowed while clearing security and opening the pool.  Chlorine and gold do not mix.

     

    I have my iPad, but I don't know if I can actually blog from that even though I am sure people do. I will probably just see friends and sleep.   Have a wonderful weekend.

     

  • Texas Weekend

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    I'm in Dallas this morning.  Well, if we are going to be picky, I am actually in Garland, which is outside of Dallas.  The important thing is that I am not at home and that I have gone off, by myself, which is a big treat.  By the time you are reading this, my vocal chords will have somehow subtly picked up some inaudible hum in the air and my own soft Texas twang will have somehow errupted out of the deeper recesses of memory.  And I too, with the subtle shift in my voice, will also probably display a slight shift in my perceptions, a sublte alteration of being, as some basic familial patterning plays itself out and comes to the fore.

    I flew in yesterday, a surprise gift to my mom, whose birthday is Monday. It has been far too long since I have been able to fly in and spend some time with her.  This weekend is all about family and mother-daughter time, and I didn't bring my computer with me, although I may finally steal a few minutes here and there and catch up with blogs and email on my handy iPad.  Otherwise, I'll be home on Wednesday.

     

    How are you spending your weekend? 

     

     

    photo of Dallas Skyline from here.

     

     

  • Transitional Space

    This transitional part of my life has not quite been what I expected.  Not that I truly know what I expected anyway, as I wavered between thinking I would be twiddling my thumbs in a hotel room with nothing to do and worrying that there would not be enough time.  Neither is quite true.  We have been busy but not too busy, and this transitional period is proving to be a good introduction to our new home before we get down to the serious work of settling in.

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    (photo courtesy of www.knoxville.com)

    We went to a fabulous Christmas party at this house where we met some very interesting people, and perhaps a few future friends, but all the faces are mostly blurred together in my mind at this point.  It was very generous of our hostess to invite us to her home at the last minute, and it was a wonderful welcome to our new city.

     

    I have begun reading again, and knitting, although it looks likely that I shipped far too many books and knitting projects to myself in that pre-arrival fear of having nothing to do.

     

    We have also been driving around a bit, exploring neighborhoods, looking into stores, eating out occasionally.  We even took a drive to Nashville once, a one day driving extravaganza, which we found very refreshing way to clear our heads when we were overwhelmed with the abundance of overly-traditional over-stuffed furniture we keep finding in showrooms.   It was a beautiful drive and although I love driving, I have occasionally wished that I was once again in the passenger seat if only so that I could snap photos en route.

     

    IMG_0012This temporary abode and transitional life is quite satisfying and all that I feel is missing is time to myself, time for considered thought, time to allow the mind to roam freely, time for blogging.  I do have a computer and internet access, and although it can difficult to share computer time from other distractions, I do manage the occasional bit of cyber-wandering.  

     

    Overall,  this interlude is proving both beneficial and thought-provoking in ways I had not anticipated, the results of which are sure to be revealed in time.

     

     

     

  • Muttering While Packing, or is it Packing While Muttering

    Yesterday I was at the vet, sitting and waiting for my (actually Sam's) appointment and I overheard a telephone conversation that just had me livid completely out of proportion to the situation.  

     

    Someone was on the phone (duh) and she said "yes Thanksgiving dinner was good"  …"The man cooked it" …"he even made stuffing"…."It was really good"…. "I couldn't believe it either".  

     

    I was really about to lose it when we were called into the examining room and I started fretting about Sam, who somehow developed diabetes just as we were putting the house on the market and are packing and moving and it is absolutely the worst time for a poor sweet sensitive cat who really just likes things to be quite and uneventful to get sick, and I forgot about the conversation.  I forgot about it until I was in the car and it just started rolling around in my head again.

     

    I don't even know who I feel this whole conversation is more insulting toward — men, whom we assume can't cook (are they too dim?  or is it that they are too bright and cooking is mere "women's work")  But then if it is the latter it is really demeaning to women. But it is demeaning even if we think only women can cook because they "pay attention to the details more" and taking pride in the idea that women cook and men don't.  As soon as we decide something can only be done by one or the other sex, we are putting both sexes down, as if each group only holds a subset of the qualities that make up the whole creature known as "human".  

     

    Why do we give a guy who cooks a turkey AND dressing accolades?  Why don't we marvel that mom or grandma or the lady next door just happened to turn out a fabulous turkey and dressing and maybe even (hold your breath) PIE.  Really we take it for granted that women can make Thanksgiving dinner and really only comment upon those who fail.  Why is it considered an affront if a woman can't cook a decent turkey but if a man burnt the turkey no one would care?  Why do we applaud a man who "helps" around the house and condemn the woman who doesn't?

     

    Yes there are very real biologial differences between men and women and I applaud them, and these differences do affect or pyschology and everything about us, and I applaud that too.  But the rest of it?  Why do we have to get ourselves so invested in our own little pieces of the metaphorical pie?  Why limit ourselves?  Why limit others?  Just why?

     

    Really, we let men get away with far too much.  And don't give ourselves nearly enough credit.

     

    Blog1Asside from my self-absorbed mental peregrinations, I am occupied with the mundane tasks of packing. Being the perhaps neurotic person I am, I have color-coded the new house and purchased 10 colors of duck tape to assist in the packing process.

     

    Aside from cataloging box contents, I am wrapping each box in the appropriate color tape so that it will be evident where it goes when it is unloaded.  It will also be very evident if any box ends up in the wrong room.  

    IMG_6656I can see already that I will need a great deal of tape and that I did not perhaps purchase enough of certain colors.  Luckily that situation can be remedied with a simple trip to the store.  

    In the meantime, it may be overkill, but the colors make me happy.

     

     

     

     

     

     

  • Ch…Ch…Ch…Changes

    I've been not particularly present on this blog the last month or so and that has partly because big changes have been afoot but had not yet been settled enough that I was at liberty to reveal the good news.

     

    An opportunity presented itself and we have seized it with all four hands.  Yesterday we signed contracts and committed to building our new home in a PUD (planned unit development) in Knoxville, Tennessee.  We hope to be there by the end of the year, with an anticipated closing date, at this point, of mid-December.  My mind is whirling with all the things that need to be done, and yet at the same time I am strangely calm, calmer than I have been in a while because I know this is the right decision at the right time.  

     

    I'll still be blogging, although I may be a bit erratic at times.  I hope to do a bit of sewing, and of course a bit of knitting as well, although I will be taking my new sewing room down and returning it to its previous master-bedroom status soon.  Everything I started, thinking I had time, is now in overdrive.

     

    Right now I have family visiting (step-son and his wife) and I am stealing a moment to write this, but I hope you have patience with me while I drag you through even more transitions.